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Being made to feel welcome is the biggest bonus for an initiate.
I came into Freemasonry, one could almost say by accident. Being aware of the organistaion in the vaguest of senses, I was invited to attend an informal meeting with a colleague. Being naturally inquisitive, I went along to see what the fuss was about - and never looked back. Walking in for the first time with so many older, unfamiliar faces was a daunting event. Never have I been made to feel so welcome by so many people who were strangers to me at the time.
Looking back, the encouraging greetings by one and all was very important to me. It provided me with security and not made to feel the “new boy”. I was treated as equal and this to someone entering a brand new venture is extremely important and confidence building. Now, when new candidates for initiation arrive, I try my best to make them feel welcome, knowing that not so long ago it was I who was looking at the sea of dark suits and unfamiliar faces.
So far, I have found every aspect of Lodge life interesting. From the nerve-racking ordeal of having to learn the lines for my Second Degree, to responding to toasts, all of which get the blood pumping. I am, however, never worried about making a mistake. Almost every one of my fellow Brethren has been in a similar position and they offer support and encouragement, rather than ridicule and scorn. If only the other aspects of one’s life could maintain such integrity.
My “non-Masonic” friends have expressed an interest and I am always as open and honest about what we do, as my sworn obligation will allow. They will become members of our fraternity when they are good and ready and I want them to feel ( as I did ), no pressure to join.
The social aspect of Freemasonry is a facet I had failed to consider before joining. The festive board is something which I look forward to with great anticipation, the fun of which I think is enhanced by helping out as a steward. Not only do I get to meet members of my own Lodge, I also get the opportunity to meet visiting Brethren.
I should like the general public at large to have a greater understanding of what Freemasonry is about. When people do not understand something, they fear the worst and more often than not, fill in the gaps themselves. I am proud to be in the Craft, a body of men who - yes - do have a good time but also raise millions of pounds for good causes.
As a Freemason, I have met people who will be friends for life - people who are honest, true to their word and great company. The Craft is something I enjoy and I hope to be able to participate in for many, many years to come.
The passage above is taken from MQ magazine and is the perspective of a 29 year man from Merseyside who was initiated in November 2005.
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